tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685425026135649263.post7140858756355289565..comments2014-02-05T22:29:42.103+01:00Comments on Creature's: Man and Women - Domination ? REALLY ?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685425026135649263.post-18414957419959983552009-04-08T20:13:00.000+02:002009-04-08T20:13:00.000+02:00Alpha male... biology.. Yeah, that has to suffice....Alpha male... biology.. Yeah, that has to suffice. Thanks for the continued answers, by the way !Creature SHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12422830299533632373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685425026135649263.post-39124292725497543732009-04-08T18:36:00.000+02:002009-04-08T18:36:00.000+02:00just because! i don't purport to understand what Y...just because! <BR/><BR/>i don't purport to understand what YOU like or why...and it's kind of hard for you to understand what *I* like, and why. it's just what i like, yanno?<BR/><BR/>(i have an alpha male fantasy, maybe it's why i write romance. hard, strong, achieving, determined. probably why i like it.)Cryshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08153955519578237380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685425026135649263.post-32799706637513493442009-04-08T17:46:00.000+02:002009-04-08T17:46:00.000+02:00Yeaaah, but why ?!Yeaaah, but <B><I>why</I></B> ?!Creature SHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12422830299533632373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685425026135649263.post-49681857951856524052009-04-08T17:44:00.000+02:002009-04-08T17:44:00.000+02:00well, if it helps the woman reach climax, then ......well, if it helps the woman reach climax, then ... get it? :)Cryshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08153955519578237380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685425026135649263.post-64784119985349648212009-04-08T17:26:00.000+02:002009-04-08T17:26:00.000+02:00Oh, don't get me wrong, my friend didn't suggest a...Oh, don't get me wrong, my friend didn't suggest a 1800s scenario. More of a "when in doubt, his call". If I got that right.<BR/>Still, I'm not fully comfortable with it, I think. <BR/><BR/>Still somewhat confused about the sexual thing, too. If anything, it would seem more logical that the man does what the woman wants, because it's more difficult for a female to reach climax. A guy will be fine as long as he's generally present, more or less.Creature SHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12422830299533632373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685425026135649263.post-55221303074504525962009-04-08T17:21:00.000+02:002009-04-08T17:21:00.000+02:00oh, i disagree with your friend wholeheartedly. th...oh, i disagree with your friend wholeheartedly. <BR/><BR/>the cool thing, to me, in terms of sexual domination/submission, is the willingness of both partners to be in that particular "sexual space". it requires absolute acquiescence and awareness. <BR/><BR/>but that would not be cool in life. i do not subscribe to ideas that a woman should stay at home while the man works (though this is my set up...or has been...but that was due to mutual agreement, not expectation). that is antiquated thinking. <BR/><BR/>women are absolutely equal and lateral to men. <BR/><BR/>but sometimes women like to get their freak on. ;)Cryshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08153955519578237380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685425026135649263.post-16356935957337260032009-04-08T16:50:00.000+02:002009-04-08T16:50:00.000+02:00Well, I talked to someone else about it. A very de...Well, I talked to someone else about it. A very dear friend of mine. And she is of the opinion that a relationship should have - as she put it - "A captain and a first mate". Which surprised various hells out of me, since I thought that she would agree with me.<BR/><BR/>So I'm starting to wonder how this whole equal opportunity thing is supposed to work out, because I'm sort of lost.Creature SHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12422830299533632373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685425026135649263.post-47260249336054983682009-04-08T16:36:00.000+02:002009-04-08T16:36:00.000+02:00waiiiiiiiiit a minute. sexual domination is differ...waiiiiiiiiit a minute. <BR/><BR/>sexual domination is different than "making decisions together" and "looking eye to eye". <BR/><BR/>i think you're confusing sexual preference with a general view on life. that is, if we are still talking about the anais nin quote and the subsequent slew of opinions. <BR/><BR/>believe me, i need a partner in life, not a dominator. well, i don't really NEED a partner, but you know what i'm saying. i do not want to be dominated as a human being. but in the bedroom? sometimes? yeah, it's great. it feeds a certain sexual impulse. but that's DIFFERENT.<BR/><BR/>unless you are talking about something else entirely? <BR/><BR/>but you know, when out with a guy or whatever --- i still expect him to pay. i'm old fashioned like that.Cryshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08153955519578237380noreply@blogger.com